growing up

Losing a friend is hard, you start to think of what you could have done wrong to have lost them, but we all need to realise that as we grow up, we grow apart.

Look at your friendship as two puzzle pieces. they fit so well together at a young age and as we grow up and find different interests.

Your puzzle pieces don't seem to fit as well as they did at the start, now add new friends you each make and the common interest you have with them, you look back at the puzzle pieces and you see that they don't fit together at all. 

I've lost a few close friends since I've grown up, I look back at my childhood and wonder what it would be like if we had still been friends today. I pasted by two boys who had been my best friends when we were younger and not one word was said to me and vice versa. we had grown apart with age and soon had no common interests together. but that doesn't mean I wont cherish my memories with them because they were good ones and you only get so many good memories in our life.

basically what I'm saying is losing a friend is hard, you'll always cherish those memories you both had together, but why be friends with someone you have no common interests with. its pointless. there's someone out there who has more in common with you and maybe you'll have some good memories with them to tell the grand-kids.
Is  this happening to anyone now?
let me know in the comments

Andi xx

this was taken in October 2014. its a really nice sunset.

it was taken on panoramic setting